Just had two left? No...the shirts were made special for the Owner. I wouldn't take this shit sitting down. I'm pretty die hard (evidenced by making this forum), but that is a pretty sour deal.
I got the Owner's Kit upon picking the car up...the letter and shirt (since they couldn't have been done short of a pre-order) were mailed later. There was a period of time where wearmopar.com was selling mens and ladies Mopar 10 polo shirts...not the typical "Mopar" polo, but THE Mopar 10 polo.
If they don't have one in your size, they can make it...just like they were supposed to. Sounds to me like someone got your letter.
I think the dealers were supposed to offer to install the specialty items, but didn't have to...I actually wanted mine left "in tact" so the Owner's Kit would stay untouched. If anyone orders the hood pins in like I did, you get bushings with the pins that the factory later decided to include....sadly, you probably can't install the bushings because the upfit plant seems to have free-handed the pins...hence why so many reported the cover caps popping off...mine rub...the hole should have been drilled closer to the front of the hood. I'm amazed they didn't have a jig, or did and botched it.
I'd ask nicely for awhile and then start complaining...it is funny, but the old adage about "You always get more with a gun than a smile" seems to ring true
Keep us posted on how it goes...I'll do what I can to help out.